Friday, October 28, 2011

Silent Treatment ; Form Of Torture

Assalamualaikum, How've you been? this morning i'm in Brit-boy mode; so let's share something out of my common musical story..It is more like life, behaviour..ahh blabla.. Silent Treatment!

Nothing positive comes from this type of behavior..I can say that I honestly don’t ever remember giving someone the silent treatment, & surely, not anyone that it would matter to anyway..I'm also don’t think that I have it in me to do that to someone, like why you ask?

Because I’ve had it done to me, I know what it feels like and it totally bring me down..& I’m more the type of person that would like to blow up about something, probably say some things I don’t really mean, apologize for saying the things I don’t really mean and then move towards resolution. But hey…that’s just me.

For those who have been treated to the silent treatment should..kind as sense of loss, of not belonging, of lower self-esteem and a feeling of unworthiness. All of these feelings are obviously the result of someone just not acknowledging them or ignoring them. I find that would be interesting though..

What makes more sense…blowing up about something, cooling off a little and then talking about how to resolve it OR not blowing up about something, staying completely pissed and not doing anything to help resolve the situation? nahhhhhhhh...think about it. GTG. Ma'salamah ya antum.. Wassalam.

1 comment:

heliza suhaimi said...

it can heal self..but sometimes it can hurt i right ?